Is a Big Thinker the Same as a Big Talker?
Monday, November 9, 2009
Big Talkers get on my nerves. Seriously. I can't stand those people who just talk and talk and talk about what they are going to have and /or do and never back it up. All of that talking and nothing ever materializes. Sometimes I want to tell them to shut up. Stop talking about it and go be about it!
I think I may be a big thinker. I am constantly thinking big. I see so much success. So many wonderful things in store for me. But not jack shit to show for it, at least not yet. I see it all so clearly and in so much detail. I believe its coming but its not here yet. Which means I am not backing up anything either. Should I shut up too? Is it time for me to stop thinking about it and just be about it?
Is there a difference between big talking and big thinking? Am I better because I don't bother anyone with my thoughts?
Am I full of shit too?
November 9, 2009 10:45 PM
i think we're all full of shit..its all a matter if it ever comes out to be anything hahaha.
but seriously i think everyone has things they have not fulfilled in life. the capacity to which we are able to fulfill our dreams is diff for everyone.
maybe people who talk alot about things are looking for someone to hold them accountable or feel by them saying it they have to do it. or it could be like the example you gave in which for some reason it just never happened.
whether talking or thinking about it, i think it's much better to realize one's potential than nothing at all.
November 14, 2009 11:07 AM
Big talkers are big thinkers too. They just choose to tell everyone what they are thinking so when it doesn't happen it looks worst for them. As I get older I try to think big but add some realistic expectations and time tables to it so I don't drive myself crazy.